What is it exactly about romance that drives a woman crazy? I really think that it's more than the intimate contact. It probably has more to do with anticipation because let's face it, when the physical stuff begins, it is soon way done. Anticipation is this idea that brews and simmers in your whole body and you can feel an immense trickling sensation from head to toe waiting to see what will truly come of this fascinating sensation. There is so much more to romance than the wine and dine aspect of it. This may be why they say that sex starts in the mind, really. It all starts with an idea spurred on by the way his eyes take you in dreamily, the brushing of his fingers against the back of your hand, a sly smile, an arm around your waist, a brisk embrace that began with his hands around the small of your back, the faintest whisper in your ear, the fingers that brush that rogue wisp of hair from the front of your face to behind your ear, the way his hands grip your neck firmly at the base of your jawline that pulls your lips against his passionately. All of that adds up to romance. Romance makes you feel special, like you matter. Would it be wrong to say expect it, demand it, be fulfilled by it, but if your guy is a dud, maybe time to find a better one?
For a quick escape into romance land, check out this video by Bruno Mars. This is his performance from the recent X-Factor show and the light show accompaniment is the most beautiful and compelling that I've every seen:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XIvpwkUuPbk
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